When You Have Outgrown Him by Kimberly Ventus-Darks

Author:Kimberly Ventus-Darks
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9780882824253
Publisher: New Horizon Press

Forgive Others for Your Sake

We have all been guilty of holding on to resentment and anger in situations less onerous than these emotions actually deserve. Many of us also have held innocent people hostage because of how other people have wrongly treated their mates in past relationships. Although it is always difficult to be hurt by others, when we recognize that people have flaws, we are more likely to be able to forgive, let go, forget and walk away.

Forgiveness is about you; it is not about them. Oftentimes when we hold onto anger and hurt, the person who actually did the hurting is not even thinking about us. All of the energy and thought consumption we put into being hurt and angry is wasted on someone who is not worth it. When we hold on to anger it affects our sleep patterns and our trust in other people and it consumes our thoughts when we should be thinking about people and things that are worthy of our energy.

Thought: Forgive because you realize that you expected too much from the other person and that he is simply human. Forgive because you realize that the person or situation is not worthy of the energy that you are giving it. Forgive because you have more valuable people in your life who deserve your attention right now. Forgive because you realize that although you may be obsessed with the other person he is not consumed with thoughts about you.

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